When your mate expresses their heart to you … although some words may not be so easy on the ears … listen with an open un-offended heart. Sometimes, the best way to find out who we are and what our strengths and weaknesses are, is to find out from the ones we share our bed and lives with. No, Love is not always sweet roses, fresh and in bloom … sometimes it is about growth and maturity. Before getting bent out of shape, take time to do self inventory .. there may very well be much truth to what they are saying. Don’t get mad … get better.